Happy Easter Every one

Happy easter I want to wish all my readers a Happy Easter.

I will be away for a few days to celebrate the season with family. I have decided I need to take holidays and weekends off but don’t worry I will be back for Take a stitch Tuesday.

I am working on something big, fun and I am keeping it a secret until it’s done. I am sure readers will like it. This commitment may mean this blog is not written daily. I will aim to write most week days but I will see how I go. If you are worried about missing out you can always Subscribe to Pin Tangle and have it delivered to your email

Seasons greetings

Christmas icon Hi all. I want you to imagine me as here I sit on my whirly chair waving in four directions sending my best wishes to everyone no matter what religion you follow. In January I will have written this blog for 9 years but I still get a childish delight in contacting people from around the globe, from all walks of life. Before I move on to what is planned next year I want to thank my readers and send everyone my best wishes for the holiday season and New Year.

I am going to take a break for a few weeks as the family are all on annual leave. It is summer here in Australia and the Christmas season and our summer holiday season combine. Jerry (my husband) has taken leave and Eve (my daughter) and her partner are coming home for Christmas and the summer after a successful tour. The family are in holiday mode. I will be back blogging mid to late January.  I must admit I am in need of a couple of weeks off as it will be a busy year ahead. Here is a little of what is planned.

TAST logoTake a Stitch Tuesday (TAST)

TAST has been very successful this year and I want to thank everyone who has left comments here and stitched samples. The call and response aspect to the challenge would not work without people taking the time to swing by and leave a comment.  I also want to thank again Annet who also has a blog Fat Quarter who stitched our TAST badge and kindly allowed me to use it as the logo.

TAST will continue to run next year with new stitches

TAST will be a continuation of this years challenge adding more stitches to peoples repertoire of skills. I will not repeat stitches covered this year which means the stitches will be either varieties of interest, or more advanced stitches.  This should not be a problem if people learn the basic stitches that I started the challenge with as the complex stitches build on skills learnt in the basic stitches.

I will include more break weeks. A common theme in the comments is that people feel they are constantly playing catch up. Feeling pressured to keep up is not the idea behind the challenge. A key aspect of TAST is that it allows people to either learn or explore the stitches and I feel if people are pushed for time samples are done in a hurry leaving no opportunity to explore the stitch itself.

As with all my challenges there is always the option of dropping in and out of the challenge as life dictates or for advanced embroiderers who might want to cherry pick the stitches

TAST change of format

For many  people they enjoy the discipline of a regular challenge which leads me to list the stitch by number and not by week. Why? A challenge needs to have a defined goal. Part of the perceived pressure is that the TAST has a defined goal which is a weekly target. I have shaped the goal to working a set number of the TAST stitches not a stitch a week. So people can decide to learn 10 stitches in the year or 20 or 50 or all. People set their own target. This  change in format allows people to think about the challenge differently.

TAST Weekly feature the change

The weekly highlights feature will no longer be every week but an irregular feature every 10 ? 15 days and will focus on any recently worked stitch listed on The TAST FAQ page. So in the comments people can let us know of any TAST stitch they have worked. The added bonus of this is that people coming to the challenge may encounter a stitch they thought was boring being worked in an interesting manner.

I have changed  the TAST FAQ  to a list of stitches by number as they appeared in the challenge and to list them alphabetically. Hopefully people will find this convenient.

Introduction of the TAST Design Challenge

For people who are more experienced every 4-6 weeks I am going to propose a design challenge. Once again I dont want to tie this  to a time line so it wont be every month and I will number the challenge. I will suggest the use of 3-5 stitches particular stitches and see what people can do with them in a small project. I will let people know the time frame they will have at least 4-6 weeks to work on it. I hope this will be interesting for intermediate and advanced stitchers and expose new hands to the huge variety of expression available to an embroiderer. I will also include the outcome of this challenge in my feature articles.

stitchin fingers banner

Stitchin Fingers is going change hands.

For the last couple of years I have been particularly frustrated that I have not been able to find the time to develop Stitchin Fingers more. It is a site with so much potential yet I have not been able to give it my best. After much angst made the decision that it will be better in someone else’s hands.

Whose you ask?  In the new year  Mary Corbet of Needle n’ Thread is going to be the new owner of stitchin fingers. Mary Corbet is already known to most of us but if you dont know who she is visit her blog and you will see she runs a great site. Mary has the ability to produce good content that engages readers and can organise material in a way people can find. I think Stitchin Fingers will be a better site under her ownership. Mary plans to first settle in, develop and grow the site as she sees what needs doing.

It took me over six months to make this difficult decision to let Stitchin Fingers go, but  once I found that Mary would take it over I am at ease as I have full faith in her.  An email will go out to all members today about this but members should not be worried about the change as for the most part life at Stitchin Fingers will go on as normal then I am sure it will get better.

Christmas iconMy Focus next year

One of the reasons I have decided to let go of stitchin fingers is for a couple of years I feel that my energy has been dispersed over a number of sites and activities.

Not only do I have a blog with Pin Tangle, a community online, with stitchin fingers, a stitch dictionary, I also have things like the Facebook TAST page, and I administer 10 flickr groups, also I have squidoo sites, a cafepress store, a member of 22 yahoo discussion groups, have an RSS reader that is always stuffed to over flowing which means I read way too many blogs, and numerous bits and pieces dotted here and there. They all require just a little bit of attention in the sense that I have to approve comments or they add to my email in box with news of what is happening here or there.

Now it’s great fun, dont get me wrong, and I love experimenting with stuff online,  but the outcome of these experiments is that they all divide my focus constantly. I am going to prune back on many of these, not all, but many. Now I know folks who are participating in TAST will wonder about their flickr group but active sites like the TAST groups etc I will not touch. For instance, I have some flickr groups that were established due to past challenges but since they are no longer active I plan to close them, the photos will remain online but people wont be able to post photos to them anymore as at the moment I am often just deleting images of inappropriate material that is sent to the group.

Christmas decoration iconA new and more developed Stitch Dictionary is in the pipeline

The reason I am doing such a hard online prune is I want to totally revamp the stitch dictionary site. I am a bit of train spotter when it comes to stitches. Over 30 years I have collected stitches  and I want to document get online and as many of the stitches and their varieties as I can. I was in the position that I had two sites that were not really being looked after properly – the Stitch Dictionary and Stitchin fingers and I realised that if I let go of one I could develop the other. The Stitch Dictionary won out as I feel it would be sad not to share the research. So over the coming year as I rebuild the site expect to read about interesting varieties etc. Of course some of these will become part of TAST too.

Classes in Development

Also on my to do list next year is to get at least part one out of a design course developed. I know many readers will love this and I am excited to be working on it again.

Classes next year

My first 2 classes of the year are Encrusted Crazy Quilting commencing on the 13th February 2013 and the second class to run will be Sumptuous Surface Embroidery which will start on the 7th march 2013. Follow the links for details and booking information. If you are not sure how an online class runs visit this page

christmas iconStitchers Worksheets

I will continue to produce my stitchers worksheets but to be honest my priorities will be classes and stitch dictionary site and then the worksheets. These seem to take me an age produce as the eye candy aspect really does take time and they are not that viable. People like them however, so I will keep producing them. I am aiming for a set a year but its a squeeze as the design course will take priority. If you have not availed yourself of the free samples you will find them here

Work in Progress Wednesdays

WIP Wednesdays has been very beneficial not only for myself but those who post regularly they say they like it.  It  will continue  and as part of the weekly deadline I hope to finish another crazy quilt. Work in Progress Wednesdays is not exactly a challenge but more a support group! The idea is to encourage people to complete large and/or languishing projects by sharing the process of working a large projects. If you regularly report publicly on a project, you are more likely to work it a little.  So if you want share your progress via a blog or public photo site like flickr. No need to sign up or sign on just join in but details are on the WIP Wednesdays FAQ if you want to know more about it.

christmas iconWhat else is planned?

There will be more changes in my blogging patterns next year one of which is to return to blogging links of interest particularly design and colour resources that are of  interest to textile practioners.

But more of plans and goals when I return. As I said at the top of post I plan to be back mid January. If you are worried about missing out when you can Subscribe to Pin Tangle by Email and have it delivered to your In Box each day

Credits and thanks for the graphics are due to a set of Photoshop brushes designed by Coydreamer . You can find them here

In meanwhile I want to wish everyone compliments of the season thanks for being loyal readers all year. I appreciate it. I hope everyone has a happy, healthy and safe holiday season and I hope to see you back here next year.

Tips on Setting and Meeting Goals

barrow of tulipsI am stepping out of my usual pattern in order to think about goal setting. So make a cuppa, and leave a comment if you have other approaches or tips to share.

Many people think of New Year resolutions as simply a silly list of  things to do that we turn around and break within weeks. However this does miss an opportunity in shaping  want to achieve.

Some people let life just happen to them while others want to take control and shape their life as much as possible. As anyone who has been through a natural disaster knows we do not have total control over what happens in life but I am one of those that attempts to shape my life where I can and learn from what I cant. For me Goal setting is important and I am currently thinking about what I want to do next year.

Somebody once said to me that

A dream is a dream

A Goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline

For goal setting to work it has to be clearly defined, measurable, realistic and have a dead line.

Be specific

Instead of saying “I want do more drawing in my visual journal” state that you want to work in your studio journal for 30 minutes 3 days a week.

Measure your goal

tape measureAn aspect of being specific is measurement. Make sure you can measure your goal. Instead of saying “I want to lose weight” state that you want to lose 5 kilos. Or instead of saying “I want to do TAST” state next year “I want work 20 stitches in the Take a Stitch Tuesday challenge

Set realistic goals

Look at what is possible in your life.  I know I am not able draw for 2 hours each day, every day of the year. I am too busy but I can find 30 minutes for two days a week on the weekend. That would be an easy goal. Since the goal is to draw more and to push myself I can reasonably set a goal of 30 minutes 3 days a week. It is a realistic goal with a bit of challenge.

Keep it simple

Focus your energy on fewer but clearly defined  goals. Some people have huge long lists of goals that never get done. It easier to simplify a list down and tackle a few things one at a time. I make sure my list will fit on an index card. This makes me prioritise my most important goals and makes for very clear targets to work towards.

Have a deadline

A deadline avoids setting vague or distant goals. Define what you are going to do and when.  It is easy to let time slide by but if you set a deadline you are constantly reminded that you need to work towards that goal if you are going to achieve it.

Plan how you will achieve your goal

embroidery threaddsThink about how you might accomplish your goals. Some folks might say “I want to do crazy quilting” instead of  “I want to enrol in a crazy quilt class.” Figure out how you are going to achieve your goal and make a step towards it.

Break your large goal down into smaller parts

Sometimes a goal is too big to envision yourself being able to do it. Break your large goal down into smaller goals. So if you want to make a crazy quilt. Think in terms of making 8 or 12 blocks. Make each block the goal.

Motivation

It is easy to set as goal but staying motivated can be an issue for some. I have a few tips to stay motivated

Constantly remind yourself

Affirmative repetition reminds you of your goal. Some people make a note and stick it on their fridge door or inside their wardrobe cupboard or inside the cover of studio journal to remind them constantly of what they are working towards. I pin a note on the wall in front of my desk and often also have it an image on computer desktop too. No matter what you do find a way to constantly remind your self what you want to achieve.

Go Public

Declare your goal publicly and be accountable. If you commit yourself publicly to a goal, through a forum, on a blog or to friends and family apart from the fact that none of us likes to look bad, in voicing a commitment solidifies that goal. Once you have stated publicly that you have a goal be accountable to that group of people and report back to them weekly or monthly, what ever is appropriate and stick do it! This of course is the principal behind  Work in Progress Wednesdays on this blog.

Avoiding getting side tracked

I am a great one for getting side tracked particularly online! So when I sit down I ask myself. How does this advance me towards my goal. Be aware of your actions and  allow yourself to be deflected from your goal. Spend time planing, but dont use preparations, and research to avoid setting real goals and working towards them.

Be kind to yourself

It takes time to established a new habit. Don’t beat yourself up if you get side tracked just remind yourself of what your goal is and set about getting back on track. This year I took part in the Crazy Quilt Journal Project and many readers watched as I fell behind. Life happens and often life is not lived on timetable. Nothing wrong with that (in fact it can make for an interesting time of it) but once the side track has run its course return to your main goal.

It is OK to change

Goals change and that is OK to. Sometimes a goal is not clearly defined, or its meaning changes.  It’s OK to change and often this means growth if you no longer have that goal it is simple set new ones and change direction.  In the textile world this particularly applies to projects started and not completed. If something is unfinished ask yourself if you really want it perhaps you have grown in  another direction and its time simply to toss it! Radical thought I know, but it is liberating as it frees up time for things you want to do.

What do you think?

What do you do to achieve your goals. Do you set them, meet them or forget them? If you have any further tips share it in a comment. I would love to read it.